Today dad was so done with my sister and me that he yelled at both of us and he just needed to go for a walk.
Lockdown has given us sooo much time that my sister and I have spent it all on proving eachother wrong , oh if only I had won any argument ever. But we really always manage to drive dad crazy.
Imagine two Arnab Goswamis staying in the same house debating on the same topic ! probably that’s what it was like.
So I sat down thinking what the problem is , and I realized that both my sister and I are extroverts , and I slowly began recollecting a workshop I did about personalities.
It was held by Priya , at Sage, Jubilee Hills last December .
We began by learning about DISC,
which made me aware of terms like people centric , task oriented , extrovert and introvert.
Extroverts are people who enjoy and are energized by being around other people , whereas introverts are people who are almost opposite to an extrovert , introverts love their own company.
And as much as I know , people centric people are ones who put people over task.
For example, you have to meet a few friends , but you also have a deadline approaching , then if you’d choose to meet your friends then you’re a people centric person.
However , if you choose your task over going out for coffee with your friends then you’re a task centric person.
D – Extroverts + task centric
I – Extroverts + People centric
S – Introverts + people centric
C – Introverts + task centric
D’s are Direction oriented– are generally outgoing , they operate on taking action.
I’s are Idea driven– they are generally persuasive. This type truly enjoys being around others and trusts people naturally.
They function best when people are around .( been analyzing myself since a while now , and I personally think this is me )
S’s are Solution driven– are always looking out for what might happen.
Let’s just take an example :
There is an event that is supposed to be held outdoors, but it starts pouring outside, so an S type person would generally try making arrangements for the event to be held indoors.
C’s are people who like to have control and feel responsible – they generally have an eye for detail and are more on the critical thinking side , they try to have an idea of what they and others around them are doing at all times.
Now I’m super confused if my sister is an I or a C ; she loves to control me , at the same time she prefers people over task , and I must say she’s also very persuasive.
Maybe it’s too early for me to comment on this , I guess I need to seriously understand this psychology more.
But I’m sure there is more to people than these labels can restrict them to.
Workshop details :
Held by : Priya Rajiv
Email : firstname.lastname@example.org
Website : priyarajiv.in